“It’s just your age, Jackie. You’ll be on beta-
Heart, Broken is an inspiring life story presenting the catalogue of relationships , experiences and beliefs that ultimately led to Jackie's heart diagnosis .
This unique and motivating memoir seeks to inspire every person who feels stuck , trapped or lost ( in their career, relationships, health or life in general) that they can take responsibility , regain control and follow a path to self -
Jackie Mannell's story begins with a very happy childhood. Her parents were poor, but that never bothered her. She was an only child; the sole survivor of five children. Her parents were ‘alternative’, in terms of their spiritual and lifestyle choices, which by the standards of the 1970s made her family ‘unusual’. None of this bothered her. But her mother was diabetic and that did bother her – especially, the anxiety of the twice daily injections.It also bothered her when, aged five, her father broke down in tears when she told him she hated him, while they were playing a game. The childish remark was to have lasting repercussions.When she went to secondary school she was bullied for over two years, by her ‘friend’, and suffered from a poor self-image. As a naive teenager, she fought against the world when she went out with a boyfriend no one approved of, causing her father to stop speaking to her for three years. Then her father left the family home when she was eighteen and her mother was distraught. Jackie became her sole carer, as the diabetes became progressively worse. Her mother’s life had been hard and this disease wore her down, ending in a grand mal epileptic fit which Jackie witnessed. She passed away in Jackie’s arms. As a result of this, Jackie swore she would never get hurt again, and she closed her heart.Jackie embarked on a disastrous marriage that lasted only months and then went on to have two more emotionally abusive relationships. She was attracting the wrong men, mainly because of her self-belief that she was responsible for men’s happiness; she tried to fix them. In one case she was nearly strangled to death by her addict boyfriend. Jackie believes that it was not chance that caused her illness, or genetics, but the negative emotions trapped in her body.But this book isn’t all gloom; there is light and shade, as in every life. And today Jackie is in a happier and healthier place - unrecognisable from the lady who went into the doctor’s surgery, was handed a prescription and told “It’s only your age, Jackie.”